BURN OUT

Burn out (a term chosen by Freudenberger in 1974) is the current jargon for work-related emotional exhaustion. A much better term is Mary Vachon’s “battle fatigue” because it suggests a reversible symptom, not a terminal event. It occurs not only to health care professionals, but wherever people try to relieve the emotional distress of others for a sustained period.

Emotional support is given most effectively when carers recognize their own needs. An emotionally exhausted person cannot provide emotional support for others. Perpetual giving is not possible. Each person needs to recognize personal limitations. The number of people each carer can support and become attached to will vary, but everyone has a maximum tolerated dose! Taking on too much causes not only battle fatigue, but also ineffective care.

The effects of work-related stress, where emotional demands exceed resources, include:

  •  Irritability
  •  Criticism or cynicism
  •  Feelings of failure
  •  Social isolation or depression
  •  Insomnia, exhaustion
  •  Poor concentration
  •  Seeing patients as objects
  •  Poor staff relationships
Paradoxically, in battle fatigue the job can become the sole source of satisfaction, and detaching from it becomes increasingly difficult.

The cause of emotional exhaustion is an imbalance between output and input.

Output of emotional energy goes with:

  •  Counseling
  •  Grieving (anger, guilt, sadness)
  •  Communicating
  •  Problems outside work
(Communication problems with other team members ranks high on the list of work-related stress, made worse if a person has unrealistic expectations, gets little encouragement or cooperation, and feels unrecognized or not making a useful contribution.)

Input of emotional energy comes from:

  •  Patients (who often encourage us)
  •  Personal philosophy or religion
  •  Developing our skills
  •  Being appreciated (“Thank you”)
  •  Exercise
  •  Recreation (“re-creation”)
  •  Outside interests
  •  Expressing emotions
«  A “personal support system” usually means having friends who will listen to us for a change!

It can be helpful to use the principles of transactional analysis to consider the balance in our own lives. (see Talking with Patients)

Ego State Negative Aspect Positive Aspect
Controlling “parent” Persecuting Setting boundaries
Nurturing “parent” Rescuing Affirming
Vulnerable “child” Being a victim Playing

We need to keep these three aspects of our personality positive. Under stress they tend to become more negative. Even the three positive elements need to be kept in balance. Carers are often good at two areas and neglect the third.


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